How Technology Erodes Our Emotional and Social Skills

It was a warm summer evening and I was having a beer with friends. I should have been happy to spend time with some of the closest people in my life but that evening I caught myself feeling restless and bored for some reason.

We Showed Men the Power of Genuine Connections at Our Dublin Retreat

Last September, together with our business partner and good friend Nick Notas, we held our 4th Conquer Confidence retreat, this time in Dublin, Ireland. From all retreats we had, this was probably the most inspirational one especially when it comes to connecting with people. The conversations we had with strangers on the street can be […]


3 Simple Ways to Show Intent (The Right Way)

Once the big hurdle of starting a conversation is taken, the second big hurdle for most men is showing intent, i.e. making it clear to her that you want to be more than just friends.


Mind Reading: The Unsung Hero of Romantic Misery

Lately, a friend told me a real story of an old couple, that he had read in the newspaper. The two oldies had been married for over 50 years and every morning they had breakfast together. They always shared one bun. He’d take the top and she the bottom. For 50 years, the husband always […]


19 Examples of How to Start Conversations With Women Naturally

19 situations and examples on how to start conversations with women in them, plus tips on how to continue after initiating the interaction – all in a completely natural fashion.


Are You Ready For The Sexual Experiences You Want?

A problem that I encounter often in my coaching is that clients tell me they want to have all those wild sexual experiences but later I find out that they aren’t ready for them to happen.


Become Successful With Women – The 9000 Word Guide

Everything you need to know about becoming successful with women in an honest and authentic way. Before reading on, I recommend that you watch this video where I give an overview of how you can become great with women:


Emotional Starvation: The Plague of Our Time

Our modern-day western lifestyle makes us incapable of connecting emotionally with other humans. What are the consequences and is there a cure? Julian shares his personal experience and the insights he has gained on the topic.

How To Know When She Wants You To Make a Move

In this presentation, you are going to learn the three main ways women signal their interest and what to do once you notice them. We created this presentation in collaboration with our close friend, dating and confidence consultant, Nick Notas.