About Us
What is Love Life Solved and who are the people behind it?
Welcome to Love Life Solved!
Hi, I am Julian Reisinger, the guy behind the site and a co-founder over at the coaching agency Reconnected.
I have worked in the dating advice industry in different positions for well over 10 years. I used to be a coaching client, then started working as the personal assistant of a coach who only worked with wealthy executive clients who sometimes paid over $200,000 for his services. Then I went on to found several dating advice businesses and also worked as a consultant for other coaching businesses. So I know the industry well. 🙂
Love Life Solved seems like a weird name but here is my reasoning behind it: I want you to feel like you can control your destiny in your love and social life.
Many of us feel powerless when it comes to these areas and it makes us miserable and feels like we are emotionally starving.
I had this same experience a while ago before I took coaching. I felt lonely, I felt clueless about what women wanted, and I felt like there was something wrong with me.
Only through coaching and self-development, I was able to turn my fate around and eventually reached a point where I caught myself thinking, “Can I get the women I want? Yes. Do people like listening to me when I speak? Yes. Do I feel confident? Yes.”
I felt like my love and social life were solved (even though one never runs out of challenges) and I could focus much of my energy on other things like building a business.
Now I want to share my unfiltered, honest insights and expertise with you. Love Life Solved is a passion project of mine. I do it to help others because that is a big part of what gives me purpose and joy in life. That’s why practically everything at LLS is free of charge and forever will be (with the exception of covering my costs to run the site here and there).
Both men and women are addressed here because what is the point of separating the sexes during the process if the end goal is them being together?
Love Life Solved aims to show men how women think about them and women how men think about them. Because mutual understanding is the foundation of any successful relationship, no matter if it’s a romantic or a platonic one.
Read more about the LLS philosophy here.
How to ‘solve’ your love life
All of us have something in common: We all want a fulfilling love life.
For most of us, that means a happy monogamous relationship with a partner we love. For others, the pinnacle of a satisfying love life is living out their wildest sexual fantasies. Yet others want to explore alternative setups like friends with benefits or polyamory.
No matter what love life you desire, you are here, which probably means that somewhere on the path towards the love life of your dreams you faced a seemingly insurmountable challenge, a roadblock so to speak.
These darn roadblocks come in all kinds of forms:
- Some of you are here because you are too shy to start conversations with the people you want to meet.
- Some of you are here because you just came out of a long relationship and want to get back on your feet and meet someone new.
- Some of you are here because you get so nervous around someone you like that you act like a completely different person.
- Some of you are here because you fall in love way too easily.
- Some of you are here because you seem to always end up in situations where you want more than he/she wants from you.
- Some of you are here because you always seem to end up with the wrong person.
Whatever your personal roadblocks are, you are in luck. We are in the roadblock removal business.
Starting right now, you are going to learn how tiny changes in your lifestyle, mindset, and behavior will lead to a more fulfilling love and social life full of exciting experiences and real connections.
Best of all, once you’ve taken the first and biggest hurdle – getting started – you’ll find that the strategy we follow is a ton of fun.
For good reason: In my experience, lasting change can only happen when you enjoy the process.
So let’s have fun with this and enjoy this exciting time!
Best,
Master Essential Life Skills for Thriving Relationships & Personal Growth