• Understand How the Other Sex Thinks.

    Hi! I’m Julian. This is my free advice site where I provide you with all the resources you need to dive deep into the mind of the other sex, decypher seemingly confusing behavior, and succeed in your romantic and social life.

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Now, you can work with me directly through my coaching academy on Reconnected. (Love Life Solved is my free advice site. Reconnected is my coaching business.)

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“Everything we do is based on honesty, authenticity, and understanding the other sex better.”

Mutual understanding is at the core of happy relationships – whether they are casual or committed. If you don’t understand your partner in a one-night stand, it leads to a bad experience for both. If you don’t understand your partner in a marriage, it leads to a miserable life and possibly a divorce. If you don’t understand your partner in a friends-with-benefits kind of relationship, it leads to heartbreak and loss of friendship.

If you want to attract quality partners and keep them in your life, you have to understand the other sex, develop real self-esteem, learn how emotional attraction works, and build a life that others enjoy being a part of.

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Love Life Solved

Love Life Solved is my personal site where I share tips and personal experiences from my own love and social life, as well as try to give you an honest behind-the-scenes look at the self-improvement industry. Everything here is free and forever will be. However, if you like my content, I humbly ask you to support me to keep the site running and the content coming by making a  donation here (no matter how small).


Reconnected is a coaching agency that specializes in helping men and women improve their love and social life and become their most confident selves. I founded the company together with my close friend, dating and confidence coach Nick Notas. We offer a range of services and products: 1on1 coaching, an academy, retreats, online courses, group programs, and more. We also share a ton of tips on our blog and Youtube channel.