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Meet more great women spontaneously by growing your social circle

This is a guest post by Jeremy Kochis, founder of Unstoppable Match.


Lots of shy, introverted men feel completely stuck in their dating life. Things haven’t changed much for a couple of years or more, and they feel like their ability to attract the women they want to date is really weak. I used to feel this way all the time.

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Being Afraid of Creeping Women Out Creeps Them The Fuck Out

Many guys I work with as a coach are terrified of creeping women out. It goes so far that they try to stay extra safe just so they don’t run any chance of being perceived as creepy.

  • They don’t hold eye contact in order to avoid the risk of staring.
  • They wait for the perfect moment before starting a conversation with a woman they like.
  • They don’t touch their date even when they flirt.
  • They avoid talking about sex because it could make her uncomfortable.
  • They are standing at a “safe distance” while talking to a girl they like so they don’t invade her personal space.

The above examples are all common ways men try to avoid coming across as creepy or rude. And by behaving like that they creep women the fuck out.

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8 Ways Manipulative Women Can Ruin Your Life Without You Noticing

Many guys just blindly enter into relationships with emotionally damaged women, not realizing the danger. [imagine the Jaws theme playing] They are blinded by a beautiful appearance and the prospect of sex.

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The Principle of Contrast

Imagine a stunningly beautiful woman walking down the street. She has dyed blonde hair and wears a pink mini skirt with pink high heels. Now imagine you found out that this girl teaches robotics at MIT. How would this change your perception of her?

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3 Unexpected Sources of Insecurity

I don’t know about you, but I sometimes feel insecure for apparently no reason. Out of nowhere, this intense emotion strikes me and forces me to act like someone I don’t want to be. Sweating, a racing heart, and a shaky voice ensue.

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3 Message Mistakes Men Make & What to Write Instead

This is a guest post by Em Hammel – the founder of MenAskEm, where she shares smart online dating advice for men. 

Your first message is usually your first impression in online dating. Unfortunately, too many guys with good intentions blow it by making one of several common mistakes, loathed by women across the Internet.

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A Thousand Lovers In One: How to Keep Your Sex Life Interesting

Many guys I talk to feel like their sex life has become as repetitive as brushing teeth.

They think the solution is buying sex toys, googling different positions, or playing sick patient and sexy nurse. Don’t get me wrong, all these things can be fun, however, constantly coming up with new creative ways to spark the erotic flame can feel like work. And who needs more work after a long fucking day at work?

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Are You Allowing Emotional Connections With Attractive Strangers to Happen?

It’s tempting to believe that there is a formula to the heart of every woman. Sure, tastes differ and what’s attractive to one woman might be offputting to another, but what if you know what she is into?

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Stop Self-Consciousness and Make Her Comfortable in Your Presence

Have you ever noticed that bartenders are always doing something? It’s true. They keep busy by polishing glasses, mixing cocktails, taking orders or refilling the snack mix. And there is a surprising reason for it.

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How to Control the Hidden Drives That Motivate Our Behavior

This is a guest post by Timon Klip. Timon helps highly analytical people become confident in social situations.


“There is in every one of us, even those who seem to be most moderate, a type of desire that is terrible, wild, and lawless.”

-Plato, (Republic)

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