About Us
Who are we and why did we start Love Life Solved?
Hey, we are Julian Reisinger and Kristina Kirilova!
We are the Austrian-Bulgarian founder couple behind Love Life Solved.
Our biggest strength is that we know the challenges you are facing from all angles.
Julian struggled romantically for most of his life, overcame it with the help of coaching and self-development, and then spent years working in the dating advice industry where he saw rich men, as well as tall handsome men, as well as rich tall handsome men, struggle with the same challenges he had.
Kristina knows the opposite side: As an attractive woman who got approached constantly, she grew increasingly frustrated seeing that some of the men with the biggest hearts were unable to communicate to women how great they were. Unlike other women, who just thought these men were not confident enough or even “pussies”, she knew exactly what they did wrong and she was certain she could help.
Finally, after meeting Julian and seeing proof that a through and through good guy could be attractive, her passion was officially awakened. She delved deep into anything related to male dating advice and was horrified by how bad and ineffective most of it was.
We discussed our experiences often and came to the conclusion that there was a better way to help intelligent guys with a good heart excel in this part of their lives just as much as they excel in their careers. We knew a way that was far more effective and healthy than anything else out there but no one was teaching it.
So we combined our knowledge and experience and created a teachable new way of helping men become successful with women in the most authentic way possible. Some of you will find our method helpful and others won’t. But that’s ok.
A wise man (forgot which one) once said that you should only take advice from people who already get the results you want.
So if you want to become a man that feels confident attracting exceptional women without trying to “pick them up”, in a way that is enjoyable to both parties, then this site is for you.
All that’s left to say for now is welcome to Love Life Solved! We are thrilled to have you!
How to ‘solve’ your love life
All of us have something in common: We all want a fulfilling love life.
For most of us, that means a happy monogamous relationship with a woman we love. For some of us, it means making experiences with many different partners. For others, the pinnacle of a satisfying love life is dating multiple women simultaneously.
You are here, which probably means that somewhere on the path towards the love life of your dreams you faced a seemingly insurmountable challenge, a roadblock so to speak.
These darn roadblocks come in all kinds of forms:
- Some of you are here because you are too shy to start conversations with the women you want to meet.
- Some of you are here because you just came out of a long relationship and want to brush up your dating skills.
- Some of you are here because you get so nervous around attractive women that you act like a completely different person.
- Some of you are here because you fall in love with every sexy girl you meet.
- Some of you are here because you seem to always end up in situations where you want more from her than she wants from you.
Whatever your personal roadblocks are, you are in luck. We are in the roadblock removal business.
Starting right now, you are going to learn how tiny changes in your lifestyle, mindset, and behavior will lead to a more fulfilling love life full of exciting experiences and real connections.
Of course, you’ll learn which signs women give you to signal interest, how you can take her on an unforgettable date, what compliments she’ll never forget, and how you can transition from an exciting conversation to more.
But more importantly, we’ll dive deep into the underlying principles of female attraction.
Best of all, once you’ve taken the first and biggest hurdle – getting started – you’ll find that the strategy we follow is a ton of fun.
For good reason: We strongly believe that lasting change can only happen when you enjoy the process.
It’s similar to weight loss:
The guy who starves himself for two weeks might initially lose more weight than the guy who permanently changes his nutrition.
But because he cannot maintain a diet of close to zero calories for very long, eventually, he’ll yo-yo back.
Our other guy will slowly but surely acquire a different taste and he’ll learn to actually enjoy healthy food and thus the pounds will keep dropping as a byproduct of him indulging in delicious meals.
It’s the same in dating. Sure, you can force yourself to go out and approach 50 women per day. And you’ll probably get fast (although bad) results. But what happens after you stop? Right, you fall back to where you started from. The anxiety is still there. The insecurity is still there.
“The man who moves a mountain begins by carrying away small stones.”
– Confucius
Your other option is to make tiny but continuous changes to become a confident man who is able to relate to women emotionally and develop a lifestyle he enjoys and others want to be a part of. These little (easier said than done) changes will ultimately lead to you meeting and attracting women that are your type, everywhere you go – without crazy nervousness, without manipulation, without having to become someone you are not.
Once you are that man, you’ll know that even if things should go sour with any one individual woman, you’ll be able to find love and partnership with a quality woman again. You’ll have developed true choice. And even though there will always be challenges in any person’s love life – no matter who you are – you’ll feel like your love life will be solved because you’ll know you’ll be capable of controlling your destiny with women, instead of having to hope for a miracle, like so many others.
Read Our 9000-Word Guide On Becoming More Successful With Women
What are some (more or less) interesting facts about you and Love Life Solved?
- Julian used to be the personal assistant for a dating coach that primarily worked with executive clients who paid up to $200,000 for his services.
- Kristina is an inch taller than Julian.
- Love Life Solved was originally named How to Get a Girlfriend.
- On our first retreat in Spain, one of our clients met a cute girl and they started dating. One year later he moved to Spain to live with her. Now they are engaged and run a business together.
- Julian and Kristina met each other over Facebook. One day, Julian messaged Krisi out of the blue. She replied 10 months (!) later. The rest is history.
Love Life Solved enables good guys to become successful with the women they like – without acting like someone they are not.