Who are we and why did we start Love Life Solved?
Who are we and why did we start Love Life Solved?
All of us have something in common: We all want a fulfilling love life.
For most of us, that means a happy, monogamous relationship with a woman we love. For some of us, it means making experiences with many different partners. For others, the pinnacle of a satisfying love life is dating multiple women.
You are here, which probably means that somewhere on the path towards the love life of your dreams you faced a seemingly insurmountable challenge, a roadblock so to speak.
These darn roadblocks come in all sizes and shapes:
Whatever your personal roadblocks are, you are in luck. We are in the roadblock removal business.
Starting right now, you are going to learn how tiny changes in your lifestyle, mindset, and behavior will lead to a more fulfilling love life full of exciting experiences.
Of course, you’ll learn which signs women give you to signal interest, how you can take her on an unforgettable date, and how you can transition from an exciting conversation to more. But more importantly, we’ll dive deep into the underlying principles of human attraction and introduce you to a revolutionary new dating method that feels completely natural to you and her.
Best of all, once you’ve taken the first and biggest hurdle – getting started – you’ll find that the strategy we follow is a ton of fun.
For good reason: We strongly believe that lasting change can only happen when you enjoy the process.
It’s similar to weight loss:
The guy who starves himself for two weeks might initially lose more weight than the guy who permanently changes his nutrition.
But because he cannot maintain a diet of close to zero calories for very long, eventually, he’ll yo-yo back.
Our other guy will slowly but surely acquire a different taste and he’ll learn to actually enjoy healthy food and thus the pounds will keep dropping as a byproduct of him indulging in delicious meals.
It’s the same in dating. Sure, you can force yourself to go out and approach 50 women per day. And you’ll probably get fast (but bad) results. But what happens after you stop? Right, you fall back to where you started from. The anxiety is still there. The insecurity is still there.
“The man who moves a mountain begins by carrying away small stones.”
Your other option is to make tiny but continuous changes to your lifestyle and your mindset, which will ultimately lead to you meeting and attracting women that are your type, everywhere you go.
With this “strategy”, women aren’t the goal but (excuse this term) a by-product of the awesome new life that you’ve created for yourself.
The choice which path to take is yours. Just consider, that we have seen in our own lives as well as with our clients that the only change that works in dating is change that you can maintain for a long time. And to do something for a long time we believe it has to be a lot of fun.
Julian’s parents got divorced when he was 14 years old and this traumatic experience showed him just how important it is to choose the right partner. In his own words:
“I saw at a young age that not educating yourself about dating and relationship can cost you everything: your home, your money, your children, your friends, your hopes and dreams.
As an analytical man who always sucked with intimacy, showing my true self, and connecting with women on an emotional level, I knew that if I wanted to avoid the trap so many of my male role models had fallen into, I had to change a thing or two and improve my ability with women.”
“Everyone thinks of changing the world, but no one thinks of changing himself.”
– Leo Tolstoy
And so, Julian set out to improve himself until he could control his own destiny with women. It took him years and he went through all the phases – listening to Youtube advice, buying all kinds of shady PUA products, becoming a coaching client, working for a dating coach, and coaching clients himself. But when Julian eventually made it, everything changed:
“When I finally knew that I could date gorgeous women pretty much anytime I wanted and then also met my girlfriend and business partner Kristina, I felt like my love life was fixed for good.
This huge part of me that I’d been working on since I was in 6th grade or so, was solved and from now on I could focus on other goals, like starting and running a successful business.
The only problem was that I didn’t have a business idea at the time. So I thought, “Why not help other guys who are struggling with the exact same problems that I managed to overcome – just until I find an idea? Even if practically no one cares, if all the experiences I have suffered through can help one guy live happily ever after then it all paid off.”
Full of motivation and a complete disregard for just how many dating advice sites were already out there, Julian began to gather all the material he had created for himself during his own journey to success with women, but without Kristina it’s unlikely he would have ever started.
“I postponed the launch several times just because I was so insecure about the content and whether people would like it. I wasn’t trying to get women to want me, anymore, but I did the exact same needy thing with my business. I desperately wanted my readers to like every word I wrote. Thankfully, Kristina didn’t buy my B.S and pushed us single-handedly to start on New Year’s Eve 2014, despite me feeling deeply ashamed.”
In the past, Julian always swore to himself that he’d never combine love and work. But Kristina had this incredible ability to connect with attractive women that he was completely flabbergasted by.
Kristina always had more male than female friends. And some of these men struggled to connect with women. As she always had a huge heart for others, Kristina started to show them how easy it is to flirt with women by flirting with them herself.
And so, over the years, she became masterful at flirting with the most intimidatingly beautiful women. So much so, that I would sometimes tell her, “Hey Krisi, could you please flirt with the waitress so we get our food faster?” And then she did and the waitress would treat us special all night and give Kristina her number.
For her, it was all just good fun and she didn’t think much about it, but to me, the whole process was mind-boggling: Never in a million years would I have thought that heterosexual women are so receptive to other women. But Krisi proved me wrong.
It was immediately clear to me that if Kristina became the coach and wingwoman of any man, then success with the ladies would be inevitable.
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