Every girl dreams of finding her prince in shining armor. We don’t grow up wanting to be with bad violent guys. No one wants to commit to someone who is lying, cheating, fighting, running, hiding. What makes bad boys so attractive is not their bad behavior. But what makes them so sexy? Here are 8 bad ass traits that you can adopt to boost your attractiveness.
Bad boys are actually nice, at least in many women’s fantasies
The ultimate aphrodisiac is a guy who appears to be tough on the outside, but who turns into this lovely, vulnerable being when he is with her.
Bad boys are exciting, dangerous, and mysterious
Bad boys have a personal opinion and they don’t fear to say it aloud. They don’t change their mind so they can impress somebody. They are not ashamed of feeling the way they do, or of saying what they really mean. You should practise by starting to say yes, when you mean yes, and no when you mean no.
Bad boys know what they want… and don’t fear to show it
Bad boys don’t ask for permission. Have you ever seen bad boys in the movies who ask their date, if they are allowed to kiss her, grab her, love her? Nope – they are confident enough to know she likes them. So, they just pull her closer, look her in the eyes and kiss her.
The fundamental difference is some people wait to be given permission and others give that permission to themselves.
– Nicolas Cole
Bad boys have confident body language
Their head is held high and their back straight. They move slowly and precisely. Both feet are firmly placed on the ground. Everything about their body language screams confidence and dominance. They also take up a ton of space by e.g., sitting with open legs and arms stretched out. Because hey, they deserve it.
Bad boys don’t fear rejection
They know that rejection is a good thing. It tells them who they don’t want to waste their precious time on. They don’t see any point in being with someone who is not excited to be with them.
Bad boys don’t give a f*%ck what others think about them
What other people may or may not think about them doesn’t cross their mind. A bad boy’s focus is directed to the outside. If anything, other people should worry what the bad boy thinks about them.
Bad boys are brave
Not like a superhero or Hercules. But they are ready to protect their loved ones, anytime, anywhere.
Bad boys talk honestly and don’t fear vulnerability
They don’t play games. If they don’t like you, you’ll know. Bad boys never pretend to like someone. Everything is straightforward with them.