My girlfriend and co-founder Kristina and I
For the longest time, I used to suck with women. I got my first kiss at age 18, that’s how bad I sucked. But in retrospect not being successful with women was both, one of the most hurtful but also most helpful experiences of my life. Because it motivated me to improve myself, face my fears, and learn to understand women on a deep level. And I came out a better man.
After my own romantic struggles were solved, I decided to start a website – together with my girlfriend of now over 8 years – that would help men become better with women without using shady tactics and memorized lines. All I wanted was to share what I had learned on my own journey. To my surprise, tens of thousands of men thought it was helpful, my articles got millions of views and I was even featured on big media outlets like TIME, BuzzFeed, or Thought Catalog.
Even though our site was geared towards men, over time I started to receive more and more messages from women who were frustrated with the dating world. No wonder, in the time of swiping, ghosting, and everyone pretending to be o.k with casual sex, real connections and romance were left behind. What’s more, over the years, I had met way too many men with less than good intentions. One example that stuck with me was when I met a guy who pretended to be the perfect boyfriend as long as his girlfriend was around only to boast about his infidelities to his guy-friends as soon as she turned her back. Seeing stuff like that disgusted me and I wanted to do something to help women identify the bad apples and not fall for their act.
So I decided to create a completely free but in-depth email series for women in their 20s and 30s who want to date better men.
Dating, sexuality and relationships are a team effort between two consenting adults. No manipulation, games, or trapping him is necessary in a partnership of two emotionally healthy grownups. You need to find someone you truly click with, not someone who pretends to be the perfect guy as long as the sex is exciting and turns into an asshole as soon as you want him to commit to you. Luckily, the world is full of good guys who are ambitious, passionate, and faithful. And I am happy to show you where to find them. Because, in the end, everyone just wants to have that special someone by their side to share the best moments with. I’ll show you how to get there.
What if you only attracted men who you really want? Imagine it. No more men who will promise you the world and then cheat on you. No more guys who are needy and possessive. No more insecure guys with mommy issues.
One of the most heartbreaking things that can happen to a woman is when she thinks she has found a great guy and spends years of her youth in a relationship with him only to find out later that he had no intentions of ever getting serious with her. Many men don’t get that if a woman wants a family at some point, she can’t wait for the right guy until she is 40 years old. I’ll help you find men who get it.
Are you sick and tired of immature behavior like ghosting or breaking up with you by being a shitty boyfriend until you break up with him? Playing games is the opposite of a partnership. A solid relationship needs transparency and trust, not drama and manipulation.
Let’s face it, meeting a great guy isn’t enough. The two of you also need to fall in love with each other. Thankfully, there are ways to help the falling in love process along without having to play manipulative games. I’ll share them with you in the email series.
Find a man who is strong and desirable but also faithful and mature (yes, they exist) by using your female superpowers to detect which guys are worth your time. With a few unintuitive tips, I’ll help you readjust your guy radar and turn it from asshole to dream guy.
Give it a try. If you don’t like the emails you have my blessing to throw them into your email trash. Deal?