Our Philosophy

The principles we live and work by.

Rule No.1

The best way to develop choice with women is by focusing on yourself, not on women.

Focus too much on becoming better with women and you’ll become needy and hard to deal with. Chill guys! Rather focus on living an amazing life and growing into the confident man you always wanted to become. Believe it or not, women fight over great guys because there isn’t exactly a ton of them out there. Become the sexy guy she chases rather than the guy who starts to drool when a girl in a mini skirt passes by.

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Rule No.2

Nothing will change unless you take action.

We can provide the info you need. But nothing will ever change unless you take the advice and apply it to your own life.

Rule No.3

Every woman is an individual. There is no one-size-fits-all formula.

Every woman is an individual with a unique set of expectations, preferences, hopes, and values. To think that there is a general formula that makes you irresistible to every single woman out there is nuts.

Rule No.5

Your lifestyle is the key to dating success.

Your lifestyle determines how confident, socially skilled, happy and, ultimately, how attractive you are to the other sex. So always remember: How you spend your 24 hours each day is who you become.

Rule No.5

No pick up, seduction, or manipulation.

We hate everything that has to do with manipulating women: canned openers and routines, lying, fake compliments, negs, displays of higher value, and so on. We believe in mutual connections that go deeper than drunk one night stands. Therefore, we strongly discourage everyone to get involved with Pickup! Become a man who loves and respects women, not the mistake she regrets the morning after.

Rule No.7

No esotericism.

The self-improvement industry is flooded with new age crap like the law of attraction. You don’t have to believe in spiritual powers to live the life of your dreams. You just have to apply common sense and do the things most men are too afraid or stubborn to try.

Rule No.8

You can't change others. You can only change yourself.

People tend to change only at their own will. No matter how much pressure you apply, if someone doesn’t want to change you can’t force them. The only person you can change is yourself. Therefore, if you want to see change in others you have to start with yourself.