• Get Out of Your Head and Into Conversations With Women

    Hi, I’m Kristina Kirilova. I will help you become a man that exceptional women want to be with and stay with.

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How successful would you be with women, if you knew what they were thinking about you?

My coaching makes seemingly undecipherable female behavior so clear that knowing what to do next becomes as easy as playing poker and knowing everyone’s cards.


Imagine you could talk to an attractive woman and if things didn’t go as planned you could hit a button and start over. Even better, imagine that woman gave you expert advice on what to improve next time.

Inevitably, you would become more and more attractive with each iteration, at which point success with the women you want would only become a matter of time.

Guess what, that’s exactly what my coaching program will do for you!

In remote 1:1 sessions, I will help you perfect your ability to flirt, listen, lead emotional conversations, give compliments, and much more.

You will become masterful at understanding female behavior and you’ll uncover blindspots (unattractive behavior in interactions with women that you weren’t aware of). As a result, it becomes crystal clear to you what to do in each situation.

Let’s get started!

Who Are My Clients?

As a general principle, I only work with friendly, down-to-earth guys with a good heart. More specifically, I specialize in helping men with the following challenges.


Overanalytical men try to solve an emotional problem, like dating, with rational thinking. E.g., I’ve had clients who wanted to know what percentage of time they should hold eye contact. “Is it 70% or 75%?”

They want to connect emotionally with another human being but destroy any chance by overanalyzing in their heads.

What makes solving this habit tricky, is that it often stems from the lifestyle these men live: Sitting in front of a computer all day, talking only to equally analytically thinking colleagues, little time for a life aside from work,… all these things pour fuel into the fire.

My coaching is a great way of balancing this head-heavy lifestyle out because you’ll get hours upon hours of real-life conversation with me.

Common beliefs

  • “I don’t have time to meet women.”
  • “Women are only with me because of my… (money, car, house, status, parties, friends…).”
  • “Women want money, looks, and fame.”
  • “I’d feel more comfortable during a date if I had a plan and knew exactly what to do and say.”
  • “Dating is a game.”
  • “She will pick the guy who can offer her the most.”

Why I like working with them

Many rational, analytical men get great results in most areas of their lives. They have friends, hobbies, and careers to be proud of. They are curious, smart, and reliable.

Usually, all it takes for them to have a breakthrough with women is a little conversation practice and a more supportive mindset. Because once these high achievers are able to connect emotionally with women, all the other stuff they have going for them will be a huge bonus and will make them that much more attractive.


Men who suffer from intense shyness or social anxiety are terribly afraid of making a fool out of themselves in front of others. And they believe that their performance is directly linked to how much others will like them.

They believe that their sub-par social performance shows to the world that they don’t belong or that they aren’t enough. E.g., Sweating at a date gets interpreted as a visible sign of nervousness, which (they think) disqualifies them in the eyes of their date.

Common beliefs

  • “I’m afraid that if I approached a woman and got rejected that my friends would think that I suck with women.”
  • “I can’t talk to her on the street. She’ll think that’s rude.”
  • “I always run out of things to say when talking to a beautiful woman.”
  • “I don’t want to make a fool out of myself.”
  • “I hope she doesn’t notice that I’m nervous.”
  • “I never know what to respond to a compliment. It feels kind of uncomfortable.”
  • “I am responsible for any awkward silence at a date. I must make sure there isn’t any.”
  • “I am afraid of calling a woman I’ve been on a date with before. I’m also afraid of being called by her.”
  • “When someone isn’t responding to my texts I immediately think I did or said something wrong.”

Why I like working with them

My boyfriend, and co-founder of LLS, Julian, has been struggling with social phobia since he was a child. Living with him for many years, I learned how to communicate with someone who is in this fragile state and know first hand what it takes to provide relief and how to lower it permanently.

What’s more, people who suffer from social anxiety are experts at observing themselves. Once they have overcome the anxiety part this self-reflexion habit is a huge advantage in any self-improvement effort.


Your typical nice guy often runs into problems because he believes that being nice to someone will get them something nice in return. What they miss is that doing something with an agenda isn’t all that nice, but actually manipulative.

What’s worst: Because of all the negative experiences in their past they think that being nice is the problem. And so they turn into guys who try to act “alpha” and want to become bad boys.

Common beliefs

  • “Once she gets to know me better, she will see how great I am.”
  • “I want to show her how much I like her.”
  • “I realize she doesn’t really know me yet, but I just know we’d be great together.”
  • “Women want assholes.”
  • “Nice guys finish last.”
  • “I’ll never find a girl like her again.”

Why I like working with them

Most nice guys are highly sensitive people who can relate to women on an emotional level like few other men are able to. Once they have figured out how it all works they usually become not just good with women but obscenely successful.


Most introverted men believe they have to be hyper-social to develop true choice with attractive women. The truth is, however, that it’s ok to not be the life of the party and it’s ok not to go to the party at all. And you can still meet a ton of women who are also a better fit.

Thus, the main challenge that a coach faces when helping an introvert is making sure he gets in touch with women who understand him and also don’t want to go out and drink every weekend.

Common beliefs

  • “Women want to party, drink, and socialize constantly. I am boring to them.”
  • “Everyone but me loves socializing. Is something wrong with me?”
  • “I am always low energy but women like loud energetic guys.”
  • “I don’t want to be the center of attention.”
  • “I feel safe and comfortable when I’m at home alone. I don’t have to be “on” all the time and I can relax and just be me.”

Why I like working with them

There are many women out there who are just like you, women who can appreciate a man with intellect and a fine sense of humor. It’s always an amazing experience for me to show these men all the different ways they can meet women that are exactly their type and restore their belief in the existence of nice, non-party women with smarts and a good sense of humor.

“Kristina is that girl you've always wanted to approach but never had the guts to, she gives you honest feedback about your authenticity and converts that nervousness into self-assurance. Once you're done practicing with Kristina you know that your game is 100 percent authentic and on point."

-Rish, Agent, Dubai


I’m Trustworthy

What we talk about on a coaching call stays between you and me

Before working together, I will offer you to sign a NDA (Non Disclosure Agreement) to guarantee that your privacy is protected. Unlike other coaches who just record coaching sessions without their client’s permission, I will never use your info without your explicit permission.

I’m A friend, not just a coach

My clients tell me I’m like an older sister who teaches them what women like

What’s most important to me is building a close relationship with my clients that is based on trust. Coaching is most effective when you feel safe with your coach, lower your guard, and open yourself up to direct and honest feedback without having to fear judgement.

I know dating challenges from all angles

I know what you are going through

Many men refrain from taking coaching with a woman because they believe that a woman can never understand how it feels to be in their situation.

I’m in the fortunate position to know the problem from all angles. Julian, my boyfriend and business partner, has walked the path from socially awkward to desirable man himself and I learned from him what goes on in a men’s head during this journey, e.g., what anxiety feels like, why it’s so damn hard for many men to approach attractive women, or what it feels like to be in the “friend-zone”.

I care about your success

No one-size-fits-all formula

Every coach out there will tell you they care deeply about their clients. Only that they don’t. As an industry insider, I see time and again that clients are viewed as walking wallets.

Many coaches use the same exact coaching plan for all their clients. Guys with superb style get style advice, guys who have no problem with approaching are asked to approach 100 women, guys who have a strong social circle are pushed to go out and make friends. It’s obviously a waste of precious coaching time.

My coaching is different. I create a personalized coaching plan for each client and focus on the areas that you have the biggest leaks in, as opposed to just blindly trying to improve every aspect of your dating skills.


I’m picky about who I work with, but I have huge compassion for those who I do decide to coach, and I hope it shows. :)

What Is Usually Included In A Coaching Program?

1:1 Remote Coaching Sessions

The heart of my coaching is the one-on-one theory sessions. They last 60-minutes and are usually held over Skype or another video conferencing app.

We’ll mostly discuss theory and mindset, I’ll give you my opinion on real-life situations, answer your questions, give you exercises and more.


  • Change your mindset about women and dating.
  • Learn the theory behind human attraction.
  • Get all your questions answered in-depth by an attractive woman.
  • Get my expert female insights on your real-life experiences.
  • Receive exercises that are tailored to your exact situation and which will help you to fortify the theory we covered in the session.

Role-Play Sessions

In these unique coaching sessions, I will role-play various scenarios with you to strengthen your communication skills and help you get used to talking one on one with an attractive woman. Say goodbye to not knowing what to say and hello to talking with charisma.


  • Roleplay challenging social and dating situations with me and get my forthright (but caring) feedback.
  • Feel completely confident in your ability to communicate with attractive women.
  • Desensitize yourself against beauty.
  • Practice flirting the right way.

Texting Reviews

My clients love texting reviews. This is how they work: You send me screenshots of real texting or chat exchanges. I will comment directly on the screenshots and send them back to you so you know exactly where you stand with that girl, what her intentions are, how to continue, and I’ll also give tips on how you can improve your texting skills.


  • See exactly where you have leaks when texting and chatting with women.
  • Learn how to use humor and convey emotion over text.
  • Learn how to go from chatting to a real-life date.
  • Acquaint yourself with a counter tactic to waiting for her to reply.
  • Learn how to write first messages that women respond to.

Chat Support

The secret hero of my coaching, chat support is the main communication channel between me and my clients. Every one of my coaching clients gets a dedicated chat channel with me over WhatsApp or Slack which they can use to ask me anything at any time and I’ll usually respond within minutes. I do reserve the right, however, to take up to 24 hours to respond.

Most other coaches will only email back an forth a few times with a client before they charge him for it. Chat Support gives you unlimited access to me – which is why it is so valuable.


  • Instant feedback on real-life situations (e.g., you need some support while texting with a girl you like)
  • Ask me anything at any time
  • Direct access to me

What Clients Say About My Coaching

It's hard to put into words but I feel if I encountered the most gorgeous woman I could possibly think of right after a session with you I could go up to her flirt and be able to get a date with her with ease because it instills that confidence and energizes me to go and do all the things I've struggled with previously because you help me make myself believe that I can. And that it would be easy for me.

- Mike | Student, New York

I want to say that you’ve helped me in thinking better about myself and approaching women. Thank you so much for the effort you guys put in.

- Pranav, | Consultant, India

Talking to girls in real life feels easy after practicing with Kristina. Getting her authentic reactions to my flirting took away a ton of uncertainty and replaced it with confidence.

- Rob | Entrepreneur, Brisbane

With Krisi by my side, my confidence in connecting with people and the quality of my encounters improved far beyond what I could have imagined. You will not find a more personable, caring person who is committed to your progress and I cannot recommend Krisi highly enough.

- Andrew | Surgeon, England

My self-esteem is way better. I’m finally seeing who I am NOW rather than who I was. And I’m one gorgeous mofo who was just holding himself back. Thank you, Krisi!

- Dan | Engineer, L.A

Our practice sessions were unbelievably helpful as not only did Krisi's attractive presence prove to replicate the anxiety levels in real life approaches amazingly well, but her insights into areas for improvement were so very useful. There was no one size fits all approach, as her advice was really well tailored to my individual needs.

- Oliver | Financial Analyst, San Fransisco


Before I start working with a client we’ll have a free 30-minute consultation. Here is how it works.

  • 1. We’ll have a confidential 1:1 call

    After applying, I will invite you to a free 30-minute call with me. The purpose of the consultation is to see if we are a good fit for working together. It’s not a coaching advice session.

  • 2. We‘ll explore what your goals for your love life are

    Everyone has different goals. Some guys want to date multiple women, whereas others want to live happily ever after with that special someone. Before we can start working towards your goals we first need to find out what they are.

  • 3. We’ll figure out what’s been holding you back

    My experience as a coach enables me to tell you within minutes of talking with you where your areas of improvement lie that keep you from getting the results with women that you want.

  • 4. We’ll define a strategy to achieve your goals

    Once we know what you want and what’s keeping you from getting it, I will recommend a coaching package to you that I believe will get you exactly to where you want to go. There is absolutely no pressure to move forward, tough, that’s my promise.

Apply Now – Spots Limited

Just fill out the form below to apply. All successful applicants will be invited to a free 30-minute consultation with me. In case you have a question before going ahead, just send me an email.

I’m looking forward to working with you!

Thanks so much for stopping by! I can’t wait to talk to you and get started on making your dreams a reality.

With all my love,