9 Ways To Check If A Dating Coach Is Legitimate

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While the number of people who claim to be dating coaches soars, so does the number of shady characters. It can be difficult to tell the difference between a competent coach who really cares and a marketer just trying to sell their products.

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Meet more great women spontaneously by growing your social circle

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This is a guest post by Jeremy Kochis, founder of Unstoppable Match.


Lots of shy, introverted men feel completely stuck in their dating life. Things haven’t changed much for a couple of years or more, and they feel like their ability to attract the women they want to date is really weak. I used to feel this way all the time.

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The Principle of Contrast

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Imagine a stunningly beautiful woman walking down the street. She has dyed blonde hair and wears a pink mini skirt with pink high heels. Now imagine you found out that this girl teaches robotics at MIT. How would this change your perception of her?

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3 Unexpected Sources of Insecurity

I don’t know about you, but I sometimes feel insecure for apparently no reason. Out of nowhere, this intense emotion strikes me and forces me to act like someone I don’t want to be. Sweating, a racing heart, and a shaky voice ensue.

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Stop Self-Consciousness and Make Her Comfortable in Your Presence

Have you ever noticed that bartenders are always doing something? It’s true. They keep busy by polishing glasses, mixing cocktails, taking orders or refilling the snack mix. And there is a surprising reason for it.

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How to Control the Hidden Drives That Motivate Our Behavior

This is a guest post by Timon Klip. Timon helps highly analytical people become confident in social situations.


“There is in every one of us, even those who seem to be most moderate, a type of desire that is terrible, wild, and lawless.”

-Plato, (Republic)

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31 Traits Every Attractive Man Should Have

Knowing what a truly attractive man is like makes it easier to become one. So here is my take on which traits every attractive guy should possess.

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How To Be This Fuzzy Thing Called Your True Self

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Recently, a member of our Secret Facebook Group talked about being your true self. I love this topic because it always raises the question: What is your true self?

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