This is a guest post by Jeremy Kochis, founder of Unstoppable Match.
Lots of shy, introverted men feel completely stuck in their dating life. Things haven’t changed much for a couple of years or more, and they feel like their ability to attract the women they want to date is really weak. I used to feel this way all the time.
At a nightlife spot where the music is blasting and everyone is standing, if you look around, you’ll see that most people aren’t enjoying themselves.
Picture this situation: You just saw an amazing documentary about rock climbing on TV and now you want to learn how to climb. So you try to convince your friends to learn it together. Unfortunately, your friends couldn’t care less about pulling their own weight up a vertical wall. You are stuck. Either you go and learn how to climb on your own, or you bury your plans to conquer the big walls for now and wait until your friends eventually “feel like it”. What should you do?
Morning routines are awesome. They can energize you, make you happier, healthier, fitter, and what not. But let’s be honest, for most people, incorporating a strict morning routine is more of a romantic fantasy than a realistic plan. That’s why I’m going to introduce you to a better approach today. It’s proven, tailored to your individual lifestyle, and not only easy to maintain, but even fun! Don’t believe me? Keep reading.
Have you ever been in the situation where you know someone, but they don’t remember you? It used to happen to me often and every time it happened, it would hurt my feelings. So I went on a mission to discover what one needs to do to become “unforgettable”. This is what I learned.
Do you live your values? An odd question, I know. What I mean is, do you know what’s important to you and are you actively doing something about it?
This whole living in synch with your values thing is a fairly new concept for me. I discovered it two or three years ago. At the time, I had no clue that it was one of the best, if not the best, ways to become a unique person. A true original. A strong, charismatic man that people remember. Cancel your plans for the day. We have got some work to do.
Building a social circle from the ground up can seem terrifying. Where are you going to find people who you like and who like you? And when you have found them, how can you develop a friendship? Don’t worry, there is a simple solution that will get you in touch with many like-minded people. Even better, with this simple solution the people you meet will naturally become acquaintances and friends over time.
Maintaining a friendship is work like anything else that’s worth having. But no matter what you do with your life, sharing it with people you love is a tremendous source of happiness. The better friends you have the happier you will be. It’s as easy as that. But how can you maximise your chances of developing and maintaining deep friendships for life? I say by being a great friend yourself. Here are some tips on how you can become a better friend.
Contrary to popular belief, true confidence isn’t built upon external achievements. You aren’t confident because you are a successful business man, or a NFL quarterback, or a famous singer. Sure, success in the eyes of society makes you more self-assured and boosts your ego, but that’s not true confidence and it can be gone from one moment to the next.
Slowing everything down is one of the best things you can do to become a much more attractive man.