How I Learned How to Attract Women Without Chasing Them

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In 2008 or so, I first became involved with pickup. The thought of buying a book or video, studying it, and afterwards being able to date beautiful women was quite appealing to an 18-year old boy who had never kissed a girl before.

However, what seemed like a promising undertaking at first – “Once I know all the tricks and techniques I can have any girl” – turned out not to be the solution I was hoping for.

Frustrated after years of unsuccessfully working on my pickup skills and back at “women want money, fame, and looks” I started to ask myself, “Almost every gorgeous woman is dating some guy. Who are these men, the sexiest women are seeing, and how can I learn their secret?”

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What to Say After You Approach Her

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This is a guest post by Dave Perrotta, the founder of PostGradCasanova.com.


You see her walking by, and she catches your eye.

Tall, slender, long blonde hair, and a walk that runway models aspire to…

You snap out of your daze, walk towards her, and approach.

“Hey, I know this is random, but I saw you walking by and you caught my eye. I had to meet you. I’m Dave.”

“Wow, thanks! I’m Jessica,” she replies and shakes your outreached hand.

The conversation shifts back to you. At that precise moment, your mind goes blank.

You mutter something bland, like “Yeah it’s good to meet you…” without adding any more value to the conversation.

“Yes, it is! But I have to run! Have a good day!” she says.

And just like that, in a split second, you miss your opportunity.

Sucks, right?

We’ve all been in that type of situation before. We start off well, but then go blank, and the conversation stalls.

So, how can you prevent this? What should you say and do after you approach her?

That’s what this post is all about!

Let’s dive in.

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How To Get Women To Approach You

You are an awesome human being. You and I know that. But the women you want to meet don’t. They have never met you and have no prior knowledge about you. So, unless you walk up to them and start a conversation, potential mates can’t know that you are this attractive guy they want to be with. Or can they?

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How to Tell Your Best Friend You’re In Love With Her

Friendships are complicated, especially between men and women. And they get even more complicated when one of them falls in love.

Being in love with your best friend can be painful and awkward. There are many questions that come to mind in such situations: “Does she feel the same?”, “Am I allowed to confess my love to her?”, “Am I going to ruin the friendship if I tell her the truth?” Let’s find some answers.

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How To Get a Girlfriend In 6 Steps – A Common Sense Approach

Finding a girlfriend is viewed as something that just happens somehow. Most people think luck or destiny are what it takes to find the “one”.

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How Cultural Differences Can Get in the Way of Love

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This post features a story of a new friend of ours, author and bodybuilder Nicolas Cole.

Relationships are complicated endeavours. Love sometimes makes us believe that no matter what difficulties come along, we can surpass them. Life, however, writes its own stories.

Nicolas Cole shows in this very personal story, how cultural differences, a seemingly small crack in an otherwise special relationship, can turn into a mile-wide canyon between the two of you.

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9 Creative Date Ideas

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To win a woman’s heart, it’s not always enough to just take her out and pay for dinner. That’s what most men do. A guy who makes the effort to arrange a special date immediately stands out from the majority of men. I’ve put together a collection of nine creative date ideas – not only for first dates – that let her know she deserves the best, you.

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Why Women Reject You And What To Do About It

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Everybody knows how getting rejected feels. You stand there and feel like your heart is in your boots. You turn red or even deathly pale while you heart pumps wildly and your throat gets dry.

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How To Flirt And Strategies To Become Irresistible

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A couple of days ago I stumbled upon a fantastic answer on the Q&A site Quora to a question many men have:
“How can anyone flirt with girls and what are some effective strategies to make you irresistible?”

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How To Know If a Girl Likes You

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Believe it or not but you might have missed many opportunities with cute girls just because you didn’t notice the subtle signals they gave you. Or you didn’t believe you’re good enough to attract them. If a woman is into you, she will show you her attraction through certain behavior and body language. Most men are clueless about these signals. But actually, it is quite easy to interpret them. I’ll teach you.

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