Confidence is the holy grail of self-improvement. Everyone wants it. Yet, no one really knows what it is exactly, or how to get it.
About Julian Reisinger
Hi, I’m Julian. I founded Love Life Solved together with Kristina. A couple of years ago, I was in the exact same position you are probably in right now – struggling to find love. Actually, I was extremely shy and socially awkward. Fed up, I set out to discover the key to unlocking my inner confidence and attractiveness.
Long story short, after years of trial and error, taking coaching, and working for a dating coach, I figured out what worked with the women I was into and what didn’t. It was a huge relief for me. For the first time in my life, I could control my own destiny with women.
Now that my own love life is solved, I have a burning passion for helping you find love as well. Because I think we can all agree that life is just better together.
I am grateful that my advice has been published on major sites such as TIME, Business Insider, Lifehacker, Thought Catalog, Inc, and many others.
Entries by Julian Reisinger
When I was a kid, I somehow picked up on the fact that making girls laugh was attractive to them. So I did what every elementary school kid would have done; I tried to make all the cute girls laugh as often as possible.
Everyone wants to read about how to develop great social skills. But what good are the best tips and techniques if they are being destroyed by negative behavior that makes you come across like a douchebag? Worry no more. Here is a list of behaviors that you should avoid at all costs if you want […]
There is one technique to change behavior that you already use but probably don’t take full advantage of. I call it Awareness, Attention & Conscious Change. You can use it to change pretty much everything that you don’t like about yourself. It costs nothing and is proven to work. Come check it out.
“Julian, you sound like a fucking robot.” His words hit me like a freight train. “Every time you talk on the phone, your voice sounds monotonous, and cold, and basically just really boring.” Shocked, all I could reply was, “Thanks, I guess.”
I recently got a message from a reader, asking me how to stop thinking that everyone is constantly looking at him. Fortunately, I had the exact same problem a while ago and was able to fix it.
Vulnerability is the key to bonding with others. Just look at every single movie with well-written dialogues. Screenwriters are experts in coming up with conversations that don’t bore. And their number one tool for keeping conversations interesting is vulnerability.
Every couple fights – often about the stupidest shit. Arguments like, “Why did you look at her like that?”, “Where the fuck have you put my soccer shoes again?”, or even the classic, “You never listen to me!” are common in relationships. But it doesn’t have to be that way! There are ways to stop […]
Picture this situation: You just saw an amazing documentary about rock climbing on TV and now you want to learn how to climb. So you try to convince your friends to learn it together. Unfortunately, your friends couldn’t care less about pulling their own weight up a vertical wall. You are stuck. Either you go […]
Two roads diverged in a wood, and I — I took the one less traveled by, And that has made all the difference. -Robert Frost / The Road Not Taken I guess Robert Frost didn’t have self-improvement advice in mind when he wrote his famous poem “The Road Not Taken”. It makes for a fantastic […]
Love Life Solved enables good guys to become successful with the women they like – without acting like someone they are not.