Want Choice With Women? Stop Chasing Women

In 2008 or so, I first became involved with pickup. The thought of buying a book or video, studying it, and afterwards being able to date beautiful women was quite appealing to an 18-year old boy who had never kissed a girl before.

However, what seemed like a promising undertaking at first – “Once I know all the tricks and techniques I can have any girl” – turned out not to be the solution I was hoping for.

Frustrated after years of unsuccessfully working on my pickup skills and back at “women want money, fame, and looks” I started to ask myself, “Almost every gorgeous woman is dating some guy. Who are these men, the sexiest women are seeing, and how can I learn their secret?”

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Meeting Women on Facebook – Part 2/2: Going from a conversation to a real-life date

In my previous post from the last week, I talked about meeting the right women on Facebook and starting a conversation without looking like a creep. Today, I am going to reveal the secrets on how to go from a Facebook acquaintance to a real-life date.

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The Best Technique to Change Behavior You Don’t Like About Yourself

There is one technique to change behavior that you already use but probably don’t take full advantage of. I call it Awareness, Attention & Conscious Change. You can use it to change pretty much everything that you don’t like about yourself. It costs nothing and is proven to work. Come check it out.

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Why Everyone Pretends to Enjoy Clubbing but Actually Hates it

At a nightlife spot where the music is blasting and everyone is standing, if you look around, you’ll see that most people aren’t enjoying themselves.

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Why Spending Time Alone Will Make You Attractive

Picture this situation: You just saw an amazing documentary about rock climbing on TV and now you want to learn how to climb. So you try to convince your friends to learn it together. Unfortunately, your friends couldn’t care less about pulling their own weight up a vertical wall. You are stuck. Either you go and learn how to climb on your own, or you bury your plans, to conquer the big walls, for now and wait until your friends eventually “feel like it”. What should you do?

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How to create a morning routine that’s better than coffee

Morning routines are awesome. They can energize you, make you happier, healthier, fitter, and what not. But let’s be honest, for most people, incorporating a strict morning routine is more of a romantic fantasy than a realistic plan. That’s why I’m going to introduce you to a better approach today. It’s proven, tailored to your individual lifestyle, and not only easy to maintain, but even fun! Don’t believe me? Keep reading.

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How I’ve Learned To Become Memorable

Have you ever been in the situation where you know someone, but they don’t remember you? It used to happen to me often and every time it happened, it would hurt my feelings. So I went on a mission to discover what one needs to do to become “unforgettable”. This is what I learned.

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Live Your Values and Become a Unique Person

Do you live your values? An odd question, I know. What I mean is, do you know what’s important to you and are you actively doing something about it?

This whole living in synch with your values thing is a fairly new concept for me. I discovered it two or three years ago. At the time, I had no clue that it was one of the best, if not the best, ways to become a unique person. A true original. A strong, charismatic man that people remember. Cancel your plans for the day. We have got some work to do.

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The Best Way to Build a Social Circle From Scratch

Building a social circle from the ground up can seem terrifying. Where are you going to find people who you like and who like you? And when you have found them, how can you develop a friendship? Don’t worry, there is a simple solution that will get you in touch with many like-minded people. Even better, with this simple solution the people you meet will naturally become acquaintances and friends over time.

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How To Prepare For Going Out

Have you ever wondered why many women need so much time to prepare for going out? It’s not because we can’t decide on the perfect outfit for two hours – although that plays a role as well. The main reason is that we don’t leave the house until we feel amazing about ourselves.

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