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A Thousand Lovers In One: How to Keep Your Sex Life Interesting

Many guys I talk to feel like their sex life has become as repetitive as brushing teeth.

They think the solution is buying sex toys, googling different positions, or playing sick patient and sexy nurse. Don’t get me wrong, all these things can be fun, however, constantly coming up with new creative ways to spark the erotic flame can feel like work. And who needs more work after a long fucking day at work?

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Are You Allowing Emotional Connections With Attractive Strangers to Happen?

It’s tempting to believe that there is a formula to the heart of every woman. Sure, tastes differ and what’s attractive to one woman might be offputting to another, but what if you know what she is into?

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Stop Self-Consciousness and Make Her Comfortable in Your Presence

Have you ever noticed that bartenders are always doing something? It’s true. They keep busy by polishing glasses, mixing cocktails, taking orders or refilling the snack mix. And there is a surprising reason for it.

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How to Control the Hidden Drives That Motivate Our Behavior

This is a guest post by Timon Klip. Timon helps highly analytical people become confident in social situations.


“There is in every one of us, even those who seem to be most moderate, a type of desire that is terrible, wild, and lawless.”

-Plato, (Republic)

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The Truth About Rapport

This is a guest post by Nick Neeson, the founder of Introverted Badass.


Have you ever seen that movie… the one about the desperate nice guy trying to get the key to the heart of that cute, tenderhearted girl?

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Eliminating Drama in a Relationship

This is a guest post by Mark Greene; he is a professional writer and digital nomad.


If you’ve never found yourself stuck in a relationship riddled with drama on the daily, consider yourself one of the lucky few. Perhaps it’s because of your no-BS manly exterior, or maybe you got lucky the first time ‘round and met the girl of your dreams (if such a thing were to actually exist).

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What Is Sex Positivity? And Why Men Should Care

When you enter “sex-positive” into Wikipedia it spits out the following definition:

Sex positivity is an attitude towards human sexuality that regards all consensual sexual activities as fundamentally healthy and pleasurable, and encourages sexual pleasure and experimentation.

Sounds pretty great, doesn’t it? However, for many guys, the phrase sex-positive still bears negative connotations, mainly because it’s linked to sex-positive feminism, a movement that started in the early 80s.

But quite frankly, who gives a shit about what it’s connected to? I say, either the ideas of sex positivity are sound, or they are not. You be the judge.

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31 Traits Every Attractive Man Should Have

Knowing what a truly attractive man is like makes it easier to become one. So here is my take on which traits every attractive guy should possess.

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Sex on the First Date?

This is a guest post by Rachel Esco. Rachel is a Toronto-based writer who is a keen observer of today’s young adult culture which she examines in her writing. Enter the stage, Rachel.


We all know that standards of decorum for the first date are not what they used to be ten years ago. Dating practices have changed as people are becoming more sexually liberal and open-minded. And with these loosening rules around first date propriety, how can people navigate between what is socially acceptable and perhaps too scandalous? This begs the following question: Should today’s singles have sex on the first date?

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