When you enter “sex-positive” into Wikipedia it spits out the following definition: Sex positivity is an attitude towards human sexuality that regards all consensual sexual activities as fundamentally healthy and pleasurable, and encourages sexual pleasure and experimentation. Sounds pretty great, doesn’t it? However, for many guys, the phrase sex-positive still bears negative connotations, mainly because […]
About Julian Reisinger
I am the one who has "trialed and errored" himself through the challenges of finding love. Other than that, I am the guy for all business related- and technical stuff.
When I am not working, you can find me fishing with friends, crawling through the wilderness in pursuit of the perfect photo, or writing about self-improvement, a hobby that has earned me some publications, most noteworthy on TIME, Inc.com, Business Insider, Thought Catalog, Huffington Post, and Lifehacker.
Entries by Julian Reisinger
Knowing what a truly attractive man is like makes it easier to become one. So here is my take on which traits every attractive guy should possess.
Recently, a member of our Secret Facebook Group talked about being your true self. I love this topic because it always raises the question: What is your true self?
Remember our five senses? Hearing, seeing, touching, smelling, tasting. Science has known for quite some time that purposefully stimulating our senses has many practical benefits.
1. Enter a relationship because of money or looks.
In 2008 or so, I first became involved with pickup. The thought of buying a book or video, studying it, and afterwards being able to date beautiful women was quite appealing to an 18-year old boy who had never kissed a girl before. However, what seemed like a promising undertaking at first – “Once I […]
You are an awesome human being. You and I know that. But the women you want to meet don’t. They have never met you and have no prior knowledge about you. So, unless you walk up to them and start a conversation, potential mates can’t know that you are this attractive guy they want to […]
Some people seem to have a sign on their back that reads, “I am a target. Please screw with me!” They are made fun of, pranked, tricked, startled, and what not. I once was a guy like that myself. But I learned how to break out of it and naturally get respect from men and […]
Confidence is the holy grail of self-improvement. Everyone wants it. Yet, no one really knows what it is exactly, or how to get it.
When I was a kid, I somehow picked up on the fact that making girls laugh was attractive to them. So I did what every elementary school kid would have done; I tried to make all the cute girls laugh as often as possible.